Tag Archives: Marriage

Waking Up

It’s funny the things that you remember when you aren’t looking for them. I was getting ready for bed — collecting my phone and paperback book, slipping my flip-flops back on so I could take them off again next to … Continue reading

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837 days and counting

I figured it out.  I have cried, nearly every day, for 837 days. On many of the days that I have cried, there have been more, far more than enough tears to make up for the days I didn’t. My … Continue reading

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Potential

I had a realization this morning: I have always loved my family most for what they could be. I wonder why? Did I get glimpses & then it would just go completely off the rails & then the process keep … Continue reading

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Of Hope and Fear

All of my life, I have clung to hope with a tenacity I can’t describe. I don’t know where it comes from. It is foolishness? Is it codependency? Is it an eternal optimism that is somehow hard coded into my … Continue reading

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Rumors of my demise are…

Well, they just are. Actually, I’ve been semi-active on Twitter of late.  Yes, I caved, and as expected, my blogging took a total jump off the cliff.  Of course, because of major time constraints, it was in actually in mid-leap … Continue reading

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Gee, you know each other SO well.

Dys-time he says… and he’s right!  BUT, I had it pretty much finished the day she posted it and have been the one waiting to post it together.  So there.  NYAH. How Well Do You Know Your Significant Other? 1. … Continue reading

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Trying to think Macro.

We’re getting ready to vacate Dodge here and head back to TB’s stomping grounds for the holidays.  This is a stressful time of year in general what with the rigorous demands of being a parent:  the gifts, the school program, … Continue reading

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Alive, but definitely not kicking

I come to you with an update not that *I* am still alive, but to let you know that TB is still with us.  In a passed out on the couch in a NyQuil-induced fever-fogged stupor kind of way. Yes, … Continue reading

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A little Love

I just wanted to take a minute to show a little love for my man, who had a great and bummer and fun and kinda sucky day yesterday.  I’d like to remind him that he’s a super guy and a … Continue reading

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Less than zen

First and foremost, sorry I’ve been so quiet.  Y’all have been so patiently checking in, and I’ve been bizzzz-eeee with work and kid and summer and, ya know, stuff.  If I were here strictly for your entertainment value or for … Continue reading

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